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Everyone is always looking to the future and unhappy with the present. The notion of when I finish this goal, or this project I'll be happy... but that day never arrives. This book breaks down that need to push forward https://www.penguin.com.au/books/four-thousand-weeks-9781847924018. Lately I've been slowing down and getting off the productivity hamster wheel.

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That is so true! A completion of a goal is not likely to make you feel "complete". We do need to slow down and not allow culture to force us to keep moving.

Thanks for the book recommendation!

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I'm always pushing forwards. However, recently I've been suffering from fatigue so I'm just having to do the bare minimum. Unlike in past times, I'm not troubled by this. I look forward to when I can do more to grow my Substack but for the time being, health comes first. I think this is the lesson I have learned from this experience - our worth is not tied up in what we do or what we achieve. It is intrinsic to us. We are valuable just as we are.

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Love this perspective Cali! I know this feeling too well, and I have come to similar conclusions.

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